Where You Click

Both Virgo and Aries like things done “just so.” You’ll appreciate each other’s refined sensibilities, especially when it comes to custom ordering food and having clothes tailored. (Sure, others might think you’re picky or even OCD, but you two get it.) You’re both natural psychologists and will have a good time analyzing people in the family. Virgo is a great listener and you always ask intelligent questions. You have the power to open up your private mother-in-law in ways others simply can’t.

Visionary Aries and service-oriented Virgo both want to improve the world. Bring together your charitable spirits. Volunteer, start a scholarship fund. Education ranks high on the list of values for both signs. Start a book club together if you’re having trouble finding common ground.

Where You Clash

You both make off the cuff comments that can border on offensive. Aries tend to be direct hits that are said right to people’s faces (you’d never!). Virgos are musings about other people behind their backs (your mother-in-law isn’t too keen on gossip).  You may have a hard time trusting each other as a result of your vastly differing communication styles. Learn to be more direct with Aries if you want to mend this fence. She’s tough enough to take it and appreciates openness as long as don’t raise your voice.

Virgo a hands-on wife and Aries can be a rather possessive of her son. She may be jealous of how much influence you exert over him, especially if she feels you are taking him away from her. Be discriminating about what you share with her or she could craft some undermining behaviors to “keep you in check.”